Polyfesto for Polyamory …. Or Other Relationships

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Whenever  I mention Polyamory people automatically assume you have the free realm to sleep with everyone and anyone. It can be frustrating especially for a polyamory couple when their purpose isn’t to just have sex all the time. For my relationship its about giving and receiving love. I also learned that I cannot expect someone else to provide me with all I need. It’s my responsibility to fill the void that I need. Sometimes I need it not just from my significant other, but also from my mom (You know when you have your moments and you only just want your mom), or your kids. Polyamory isn’t about sex. It’s about respecting others needs, building a connection, and loving others for who they are and what they can bring to the table.

My husband found this Polyfesto and shared it on his facebook, but I thought I share it on the blog so others can find it and use it. It works for not just intimate relationships, but also friendships and relationships with family members.  Just remember to have an open mind, heart, and soul. 

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Incredible Dorka Book Review Ages 5-10

Children's Book Review


If you are like me who struggle to get your little ones to sit for you to read them a story. Then you need to grab yourself a copy of the Incredible Dorka!

This book is funny, cute, and easy to relate to. Dorka goes through a day  that she tries to do right and everything goes wrong.  Which my girls could relate to. They HATE getting into trouble and try their hardest to not do anything bad. But sometimes they forget what their suppose to do. What kid doesn’t?

But it really caught Journey’s attention even though he can’t read yet because it wasn’t a book about having a good character, but about trying to have a good character. Incredible Dorka was also a great lesson to show my kids about the Law of Attraction. How you can do everything in your power to do right, but sometimes its just not in the Universe’s plans for us. Sometimes we just have to accept it, make amends, and move on without getting hung over what could’ve, would’ve, should’ve. My kids have been asking me to read this book over and over!

FTC Disclosure: I was given the product in exchange for this review. My opinion is my own and 100% honest.


Organic Matcha Green Tea Review & Recipe

Organic Matcha Green Tea

Now that I’ve been on a health kick lately, I’ve been trying a lot of products out to see what works and my favorite is anything that is natural and in its purest form. Organic Matcha Green Tea Powder has been an added boost to my green smoothies. The health benefits behind green tea is extraordinary and it wouldn’t be fair to not do a review since I have been seeing results with not just my weight loss, but also my overall health.

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5 Ways to Affirm Your Truth + Giveaway #The12Secrets

5 Ways to Affirm Your Truth


It’s Day 40 for my 100 Day Reality Challenge! I haven’t been able to keep up with daily updates or even weekly updates. LOL I’m so horrible with it. I had to share with you guys what I’ve been doing these past 40 days as an update so you know that I’m still going strong with my challenge.

If you just started following me, please read this post to get updated on what the 100 Day Reality Challenge, as well as this post for my Spiritual Journey.

I LOVE! No, I’m obsessed with two things. Makeup and books. My favorite books are personal development, spirituality, and sy fi books.

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Rent Your Books for College!

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Since I mentioned in this post, that I’m going back to school and that includes books. I forgot how much books costs and every penny in my pocket counts. I honestly can admit that I can’t afford college textbooks and even though my school offers a payback program. I still can’t afford to only get a fraction of the price back.

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Campus Book Rentals allows me to rent books and return them for a third of the price that my college offers even for used books and payback program combined. I can’t wait until I get my book list because Campbus Book Rental saves you between 40%-90% on books plus its free shipping both ways.

I know buying rental books can be a pain in the butt because you can’t highlight in books like other services, but Campus Book Rental allows you to highlight the books. Another thing I love about this company is that they take a portion of each rental and donate it to Operation Smile.

I first hand know how important having a beautiful smile is. I chipped a tooth when I was in 3rd grade and throughout the rest of my childhood into my adulthood. I walked around with a chipped tooth and it made me very self conscious of myself and my appearance for job interviews and even talking to people. I couldn’t imagine having a facial deformity and facing the daily struggles they do. This program is awesome way to give a child their smile back.

#Free Round Lavender Earrings in Sterling Silver {Ended 5/23/15}

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100% off coupon code to order Round Lavender Earrings in Sterling Silver from Darcus Tori Use promo code: 0704

You will be charged for shipping and insurance, but its a great deal! $59 to only $7! I ordered mine and can’t wait to try them out! I have very sensitive skin when it comes to jewelry. I’m praying these are safe to use.

free lavender earrings

This offer doesn’t last long! It expires May 23rd, 2015 and you can only order up to 3 which only comes to $21.15!!!!

If you are like me with sensitive skin then you need to jump on it!

5 Ways to Balance Blogging & Working Full-Time

5 Ways to Balance Blogging & Working Full-Time

It was bound to happen and I don’t even want to talk about it, but I know that some of these tips could help another mama. Especially those who are already working a full-time job, but want to build a blog. I can’t even bring myself to even say it, but yes. I am going back to work.  Full time  Its not something I’m happy about because I would love to be able to stay home and blog full time and homeschool my kids. But I can honestly say that in order to blog full time. I need more education with social media  , writing, and even marketing. Yup, I’m going back to school . Education = Money which I refuse to take out loans and create more debt so I’m going back to work to pay for my education so I can learn more about what I love! Blogging and social media! 

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Eagle ProFitness #AwesomeWristWrapCombo Review

Weightlifting Wrist Wraps

Now that I’m working out more to get fit for the summer time. I’m learning more and more about weight lifting, losing weight, eating right, and how to maintain a healthy lifestyle.

I used to be that chick who was afraid to touch a weight due to being buff like a body builder. Did you know women only have 5-10% the amount of testosterone that men have in their bodies to even make muscle? I didn’t! When I learned that women didn’t produce enough testosterone to build muscle like that I hit the weights.

My husband is a veteran and is naturally built . Just lifting a finger and he burns fat. During his last physical the doctor said he has 0.03% body fat. SMH %*#&!

If you are like me, its not easy to lose weight and it takes work to maintain your weight and not gain a muffin top. But I took my husband’s advice and go with smaller weights but do more reps to build muscle. After two weeks, I noticed my wrist were hurting with the multiple reps.

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#VeryHealthy Vegan Spaghetti + {Giveaway Ended}

#veryhealthy Healthy Vegetable Spiralizer


I’m always trying to find different ways to keep the kids interested especially with meals. We can’t have onions, celery, squash, spinach, carrots, peas, string beans, carrots, or tomatoes. Making dinner can be frustrating sometimes and boring with the same old stuff day in and day out.

I’ve always wanted to try vegan spaghetti instead of using pasta. Why? When you eat anything with starch it turns it into glucose (sugar) and it when it passes through your digestive system it sometimes gets stuck and then turns into fat. Which is not what we want especially if we are doing weight.

For this recipe you are going to need a vegetable  spiralizer. There are so many out there, but I have come to love the Very Healthy Spiral Slicer, Vegetable Spiralizer, Zucchini Spaghetti Pasta Maker by VarietyLand.

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5 Ways to Raise a Spiritual Child

how to raise a spiritual child


This post isn’t going to be one of those how you should raise your child. But I have had a few questions about raising a spiritual child. I never thought I was raising such children until I identified as a spiritual woman. I don’t live by one law, one religion, one belief. You can read My Spiritual Journey and understand where I started.

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